How to use fear and failure to your advantage

I spoke with a couple of my colleagues the other day about their business and I’ve noticed a stark contrast in how some people are making more money than they have before while some successful colleagues are having their worst months yet. 

This is a great time to talk about the energetics of failure and the spiritual reason behind this unwelcome but very necessary teacher.

If you need a pep talk, watch the video I shared above.

0:13 some of my colleagues have had their worst business launches yet and some are making more money than ever before…

0:33 this is about the individual’s soul journey

1:28 If you have poured your heart into something, but it’s not growing the way you know it can and you’re frustrated it’s not working out, this is a call to sit with the lessons that this failure is bringing to you.

2:17 Follow the path that leads to your fear. Allow fear to reveal how you are not sovereign, how you have attached your sense of worth to something outside of you.

3:00 Failure is an opening to heal your fear and a motivation to do the work

3:16 Failure always leads to immense growth 

3:34 Every single time when you wake up to heal your fear, the ideal clients will come.

4:05 We cannot ever compare our journey to someone else’s. Here is why…

4:36 You could be witnesses the peak of someone’s decades of hard work 

4:40 Sometimes, you’re watching someone at the height of their success before their self-destruction. 

5:27 Even if you see someone in their rise and full success, you can’t judge that, because you don’t know what’s behind that. Be happy for them, but don’t judge them. 

5:56 Sit with the discomfort of the things you tried and find the chord of fear. 

6:15 All the universe wants for you to be you. The universe wants you to radiate in the pure genius that you are--and it knows you have a lot of baggage.

6:50 Some wounds can only be healed through failure. 

7:06 Failure is OPENING

7:21 Failure doesn’t mean you are descending, it means you are ascending, you are rising! You just need to rise to the occasion, because everything else will take care of itself.

Anna Tsui